I try really hard to not to recount every little thing that goes on between me, and Joe Bob, however, this morning he said something so ridiculous that I am still shaking my head over it. My mind is amazed that 1. he would actually believe what he said to me and 2. that he would bring it up so soon after my father’s death.

During a phone call this morning, Joe Bob said he was going to go ahead and proceed with the divorce, and let me know when the paperwork was finished. He said he was doing it because I “had moved on”. My response was “Moved on how?”

He said that I had been “seen” – last week – at the place where I go for depression treatment with “some guy”. I was at the treatment center twice last week. Once on Wednesday morning, and then again Thursday morning. I asked him who told him this, and what day did this happen on? He said the person was his oldest niece, and she saw me HOLDING HANDS with a guy Wednesday morning.

His oldest niece happens to be on juvenile probation, and those probation offices are right next door to my treatment center. So I can believe that she was there, I can even believe she might have seen me, but this whole thing about ME holding hands with “some guy” is beyond stupid, and ridiculous.

Tuesday night, Minnie – my little dog – and I spent the night with my friend from group. A female friend…Wednesday morning I packed Minnie in a bag, and took her to group with me and my friend. No guy involved. Even in my group there is no guy – it is an all women’s group.

So between riding to the treatment center with my friend, and me being very noticeable because of having my dog with me, there is a huge number of people who could/would be able to truthfully say I was not there with “some guy”

When I went to the treatment center Thursday, my mother took me, and was waiting in the parking lot when I got finished.  Again, there are loads of people who could/would say there was no “some guy” with me.

Oops! Someone got busted in a lie. Either Joe Bob is lying, and his oldest niece said nothing of the sort, or his niece lied to him. SHAME ON whoever did the lying, and SHAME ON Joe Bob for bringing it up. This teaches me to NOT answer the phone when he calls.